What do you do about it? If you ignore it, are you agreeing with them that you are less valuable? If you address it, are you could alienating them further. If you get mad about it, do you validate their opinion further.
Are you looking to them to provide you
validation? Is that the reason you have been who you have been to them? Maybe in a small way??If they are a person, they will under appreciate you. They will usually not reciprocate or notice what they receive from you. Just move on, Seek God, and let that safe relationship define you.
It isn't ignoring it, it is stopping the search for it. It is forgiving them for what they are incapable of anyway. You never should have looked there in the first place.
Move on. Let the pain signal you that you are looking in the wrong place.
BTW: all "you"'s can be replaced with "I''s
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Lone McCord
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